Friends or Foe...

Honestly Not sure where todays Rant gonna go... so bare with me or bear with me..Honeslty which one is it!?!? I asked a friend and they like me were clueless..Anywho off subject.. Back to friends or foe dun dun dun....

Living in a military house with a military husband, you realize that you need to rely on NON-family members...Yes Friends..for alot of us we say oh no we cant ask anyone for help..Im so pulling the bull shit card..you either A) are fricken A super women.. or B) your a class a hermit.. no no seriously maybe you have not found that person you are completly comfy with..and Im sorry..no go put your big girl panties on and go make a good friend..

Where the Hell is this going Carie you ask...UMMM or EH as my new wonderful friend says Im not fricken sure yet just go with it..

So 8 years ago we left Maryland/Delaware or ie...family... For both Kevin and I we are not very close with our families.. Kev grew up in a military house that moved way to much..and they are not normal... He has a sweet brother and I have a wonderful sister-in-law and 2 cute kids out of that deal.. and one amazing cousin family who we miss daily Paul and Heather...they are probley the only family both sides included that we could live next to and never argue..(ok maybe argue a little but we would get over it..) And well my family lots and lots of skeltons there..and lots and lots of skeltons that people like to deny.. dont get me wrong I love them (AUNT KIM and UNCLE DAVID reading this..I love you 2 to pieces) and they have made me this strong willed pain in the ass I am now.. So for that THANK YOU.. ok once again off topic.. what was that again..

FRIENDS Carie FRIENDS...sheesh all the voices in my head tend to take over at times..

OK so I grew up in and out of different schools..on and off the ice..lots of girls..ugh girls..I have always gotten along with boys better..(its the boobs) no no I cant take catty drama..I speak my mind and have no filter..so sometimes I dont get along with lots of girls.. YOu either love me or hate me..and I am ok with that..and I think I have always been like that.. I had a few great friends growing up..and some who i thought were wonderful and well..they turned out to not be so great..

Everything changed friends wise for me...we moved to Okinawa..I meet quite a few women who were catty catty..and I meant some amazing ladies who I will treasure til the day I die..or till the day they take me out to the pasture and shoot me..YES I dont want to die ugly so they have promised to take me out and do the job..gotta love friends like that right..

SO my OMAGE to the girlies in my life...(im going in order ladies so dont wet ur panities..)

Shelly...an amazing gal who helped me get my drink on when needed!!!

Jenn Lynn Glynn (say it fast it is fun to say) this is one amazing women..when i grow up i want to be a mommy like her, super sweet and just a good soul..

Crystal..AKA the hired help.. the BFF that will throw you under the bus..then pick you up and dust ya off...lets just say...I admitted to a very nice black couple not to worry I have no hoods in my closet..yes I said that lol..BUT it is all Crystals fault and well a few too many beers..

Lindsay.. the one when you need a pep talk go to her..cause sadly she has had shitter lucky in realtionships.. she is the one to talk too when your husband has pissed you off..cause hell she has had it worst..so you can be like damn my husband is not that bad..lol  LOVE YOU LINDS..MY FRIEND WITH GREAT BOOBIES...

Amy.. oh what to say about Amy you can confine anything and everything to her and she wont tell a soul..the funny thing is i meet Amy not long after we got to Oki..but it never worked out till the end..and  I hate that..But I will be sitting at her wedding in just a bit..

then there is Joyce.. what to say about Joyce.. she is the  big sister a girl should have.. she just jumps in she can read me she knows when i need her and i dont have to ask..she can give me shit..tell me to go jump off a bridge and then call me back and be fine.. and she has an amazing husband that can be called on when need too..like when a certain person slips chips her tooth and needs her husband home..lol shhhhh who is that person..damn beer..

So in the end..sometimes friends are your true family...

But Im gonna leave this with do we keep our friends close and are enemy's closer...til I continue with this rant..